to ask any member here to be on your friend list, just click on the avatar next to their name on any page on the site. for instance below this comment is a comment cartoon from diana engdahl. if you click on her picture there (not the welcome thing, but the small pic by itself on left side of box) it will take you to her page. so, on the epp hexi pages click on the avatar of anyone you wish to friend and it will take you to their personal home page. under their name it will say "add as friend" ..click on that. a little dialogue box comes up. say something or not just hit ok and off goes the friend request. hope this helps.