Inspiring Quilters, Stitch by Stitch
I, like most quilters, have a cat. But I am not a cat person, I got the cat by accident and though I love her, it's always been my dogs that have my full devotion. Last summer I lost my 7 yr old Jack Russell Terrier, Cricket, to a speeding car. It was abrupt and horrible and I miss the yappy little pain in the neck every single day. But for the last 14 years there's been Echo, my 140 lb big black lab that spent most of her time pretending she's a rug on my living room floor and by my bed at night. I was hers just as much as she was mine, she never left my side for all those years, so the last few weeks as I watched her grow sicker and weaker, I spent most of my days by her side, giving her what little comfort I could, and soaking up as much puppy time as I could before I had to let her go. Finally, last week, it was clear she was not going to get any better and I couldn't watch her suffer any longer, she wasn't complaining at all, she was such a good girl. It took me three days to work up the nerve to make the call to the vet and Friday I saw my girl off, where hopefully she's running and playing with our Cricket. The weekend has been a test, with the cat running to the door every morning to let the dog out and again at the usual times during the day and at night, a reminder of what we are both missing. Cat has lost her cuddle buddy and it feels like I've lost my best friend. Rest in peace, pretty girl, you deserve it.
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Comment by the rogue quilter on July 10, 2012 at 10:04pm
Comment by Susan Bosshardt Sinks on July 10, 2012 at 9:55pm Awwww so sorry. I love my dogs too, and miss the ones that are no longer with us even though they were sometimes a pain in the butt. You kind of get used to having them underfoot.
Comment by Carol Olson on July 10, 2012 at 9:53pm Hate seeing those family members go we lost our Corky on March 13 of this year 14 years old. My mealtime helper now I have twice as much garbage but everyday there is some kind of memory that me and my husband can recall and it fills our emptyness. May you find peace in your sorrow and remember how she loved you unconditionally, as did you. Happy memories
Comment by viki hagan on July 10, 2012 at 9:35pm They really are part of the family after awhile. I'm sorry about your Boo. The vet found a mass in Echo's stomach, but at her age it would have just been putting her through a bunch of suffering for probably not much longer. I look forward to being able to talk about her without it being upsetting.. Thank you.
Comment by Ethelda Hillsman on July 10, 2012 at 7:22pm Sorry for your loss, Viki. Our pets become members of our family and it is so very difficult to let go. We had a Wire Hair Fox Terrier (named Boo) and when it came time to call the vet(he had cancerous tumors in his nose), neither of us wanted to do it. Finally, my husband just put him in the car and off they went. We couldn't talk about him for a good year. It does get easier and now we can laugh and talk about what a great dog he was.
Comment by viki hagan on July 10, 2012 at 10:51am Debra, I think your husband and I are in the same boat at the moment. Echo was a rescue as well.. although a bit more literally. A co-worker of my husband found her and two of her siblings in a trash bag on the side of the road, sadly one of the puppies had already been hit by a car. So, Jack brought me Echo...just what I needed with a pit puppy and 4 rotty's already,lol... but it was clear she was mine from the go. I haven't spent a single moment in the house or around the yard without her since the day she came home. She even went on two cross country road trips with me. It's extremely odd around here without her.
Melanie.. yes there is.
Comment by Debra H Gibbs on July 10, 2012 at 10:23am
Comment by Melanie Keith on July 10, 2012 at 1:55am Viki, was just checking out blogs and found you here. So sorry to hear about your buddy. My collie mix and her pain in the neck Tigger cat have been gone for quite a while, but I still miss them. It's hard to lose family - there's love in those eyes.
Comment by viki hagan on July 9, 2012 at 4:38pm thanks ladies.. sue, my condolences, I don't think I could have handled it if I'd lost them at the same time
Comment by Karen Lightman on July 9, 2012 at 4:24pm Oh man...I hate to hear that. I know how much pets can mean to a person so I hope you find peace soon. She looks like she was a good friend..what a sweet face!
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